Letter to all Gentlemen (Must Read)

By: Moses Umeh Chinaza 

Lots of men are so sick today because of the presence of the woman in their lives. A girl who forces them to meet all their needs and that of their family and friends.

 They have no call credit on their phones but have bought more than enough for their girlfriends who don't use it to call them but call others and only flash them for more credit when it runs out.

There are guys who have phones which really need a change but could not because they have spent all their money to get the latest version of a phone for their girlfriends. Guys have less data on their phones, and have to switch off the data after every update whilst they have secured enough data for their girlfriends who never turn off their data, but spend all their time online chatting with other guys.

 It is sad to know how guys pay for university fees for the girls they are dating yet they don't have such qualifications and they don't pursue such even when they have the opportunity, whilst some are just First School Leavers. Many of these guys ride in public bus but their girlfriends ride with taxis and Uber at the expense of the guy's wallet.

No wonder you see most overreacting, becoming more jealous, warning and fighting other guys to stay off their girlfriends.

You claim you love a lady so much, and spend all your coins on her, yet it feels like you are bound to lose her at any time, but you keep fooling yourself in the name of love. If you are such a guy out there, your name is "the weak man", grow up.

A weak man needs to understand that a real woman won't love you because of what you give her; she will love you even while you are broke. But a fake woman will love you until you are broke or leave when she finds someone better than you.

It's an error for a lady to think a man is responsible for her needs, so she goes into a relationship to demand such from him. The man is not responsible for your feeding fee just because he is dating you. Don't tax him for your airtime, data, etc. Don't force him to get you a new phone, TV, refrigerator, etc. He is not a merchant but a lover. A boyfriend is not a supermarket. Please if you agree comment 'correct' but if you disagree comment 'chai'